elizabeth kavaler m.d. - urology specialist in female disorders


Frequently Asked Questions For The Urologist

Here are some common answers to questions asked by individuals visiting the urologist:



  1. How many glasses of water per day should I drink?

    In general, people drink too much water. If you don’t have bladder problems, you can drink as much as you want. If you go to the bathroom too often to suit you, or if you can’t control your urine, you may want to reduce your fluids as a first line of treatment.

    A good rule of thumb is to drink when you are thirsty. If you are not thirsty, you are getting enough fluid. Fruits, vegetables, and grains have a lot of liquid, so a well balanced diet will offer a good deal of fluid just in your food. Soda and juice are empty calories at best, and full of harmful artificial products. If you exercise regularly, you may not need as much water as you think. Again, listen to your body: If you feel thirsty, then drink water.

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  2. Will drinking a lot of water help me lose weight?

    No. Fat is not water soluble. Weight loss occurs when calories are reduced and the metabolism is boosted through exercise. Water will only perpetuate the oral fixation that leads to weight gain. Water will not fill you up either—it expands your stomach and makes you feel hungry. If you are on a diet, you should drink when you are thirsty, just as you would if you were not on a diet.

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  3. What color should my urine be?

    Your urine should be yellow. If you have clear urine on a regular basis, then you are drinking more water than you need. There is nothing wrong with clear urine, unless you have problems with your bladder. If you go to the bathroom frequently and it annoys you, or you can’t control your urine, reduce your fluids. Yellow urine is healthy.

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  4. Can you get urinary tract infections (UTIs) from sex?

    Yes and no. UTIs are not sexually transmitted diseases like chlamydia or gonorrhea, but they are more common in sexually active women. Sex acts as a mechanical process through which bacteria that are native to your vaginal canal and genital skin are moved toward the urethra, through which they can travel up into the bladder. The bacteria do not come from your partner. They come from you. If you get recurrent urinary tract infections, do not send your partner to the urologist to be checked. They are not his fault. And, do not accuse of bad behavior!!

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  5. Can you get urinary tract infections from public toilets?

    No. Bacteria that cause UTIs cannot live on inanimate objects. They thrive in warm moist temperatures and need nutrients from the human body to survive. As unappealing as public toilets are, you cannot get any bladder conditions from them. I would still advise covering the toilet with paper or squatting anyway, but they are not as harmful as they appear.

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  6. Why do I get UTIs and how can I prevent them?

    More than 85% of women will have at least one UTI in their lifetime, so most women are prone to them. No one knows why certain women get urinary tract infections and other women do not. No matter how many specialists you see or how many tests are performed, you will not find the answers that you are looking for. The only time that we suspect a curable cause is if you have a history of childhood infections, or fevers with infections. Since we don’t know what causes them, we don’t know how to prevent them. What we can offer is better management. If you get a UTI or suspect that you have one, see your physician.

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  7. If I have pain in my pelvis, is it always a UTI?

    No. Bacteria are one cause of inflammation in the bladder that can lead to pain, burning, frequency, urgency, and even leakage of urine. It is not the only cause. Viral infections, environmental irritants, and pelvic muscle spasms can also cause these symptoms.

    If you do not have bacteria in the bladder, do not take antibiotics. The best way to know if you need antibiotics is to do a urine culture, which is performed at a lab or through a physician’s office. If you suspect an infection, or have pain in the pelvis, consult a physician.

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  8. Will cranberry juice or pills prevent urinary tract infections?

    Probably not. However, lots of effort has gone into proving or disproving their effectiveness.

    Before we had antibiotics, the only way to manage infections was through natural methods. Cranberry juice is a diuretic, so it will flush fluid through the kidneys and bladder. However, it is a weak diuretic. The juice is full of sugar, even the natural brands, because fruit contains fructose, which is a sugar. I have no idea what the pills contain that would prevent infections. My advice is to eat well, exercise, and sleep. These will all boost the immune system. If you get an infection in spite of these efforts, at least we have antibiotics to treat it.

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  9. If my mother has bladder control problems will I develop them too?

    No. Although bladder control issues, also known as urinary incontinence, do have a genetic component, other factors contribute as well. Age, pregnancy history, chronic constipation, and chronic coughing will affect the urinary tract. Immobility, mental deterioration, medications, and neurological problems, such as stroke and Parkinson’s disease, can impact on the bladder, as well. Fortunately, we now have specialists to consult and options for treatment that were not available to .prior generations of women.

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  10. Is it bad to hold your urine?

    No. If you delay emptying your bladder when you have an urge, you will not poison your body, nor will you disturb the bladder. If you have the urge to urinate and you delay it enough that you begin to leak, you may want to respond more quickly so you don’t have an embarrassing situation. In general, you can not hurt yourself by holding it in.

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  11. If I can’t get to the bathroom when I get the urge, is it my fault?

    No. Women always say, “I must be doing something wrong because I lose it before I make it to the toilet.” Urinary urge incontinence, which is the inability to hold it with an urge, occurs when the bladder muscle spasms and urine comes out. It may be a few drops of leakage or a whole gush. Either way, the force of the bladder spasm is out of conscious control. It is an involuntary action that you cannot control by will. The most common scenario is when you put the key in the door and the urine begins to flow. Clearly, there is process through which the brain and bladder register signals, but they are not communicating well. That is not your fault. You may need some help from a specialist to gain the control you need.

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  12. Is wetting your pants an inevitable result of aging?

    No. As we age, the bladder goes through changes. Just as the eyes and hearing deteriorate, so does the bladder. The first manifestations of the aging bladder are urgency and frequency. In many women, these symptoms progress to uncontrollable leakage accompanied by the urge to urinate. Although this may be a natural part of aging, no one has to live with any of these symptoms. All of them can be controlled with various interventions.

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  13. If I wear a pad, will that cause me to leak more?

    No. Just because you wear a pad, your bladder will not get lazy and empty without you controlling it. Wearing a pad may protect your clothes, your bed sheets, and your self-esteem. If you need to wear a pad because you leak, wear one until you can seek the treatment you need to stop wearing it with confidence.

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